So last time I left off I was faced with a dilemma – whether to meet Mr Big again or not, given his marital status.
Well the short answer is I did.
We met up for a quick drink in a bar not far from where we both work. The bar in question is well known as a bit of a meat market – the type of place where women from a certain area east of London associated with the TV show TOWIE, come to find a nice gentleman with a steady wage. What am I saying – they go there because it’s where all the City Boys hang out on a Thursday (it’s the new Friday) and get absolutely wankered, easy pickings on both sides.
I was a bit surprised and I’ll admit dismayed with his suggestion but put it down to his not being in the country long, so I bit my tongue and met him there. Again he was dressed in standard City Trader attire with his monogrammed shirtsleeves (cringe), but he carries it well.
We chatted for a while and I found out a bit more about what he does for a living – trading in some sort of agri-business… And I told him about my passion in life – pole dancing. I know I know I shouldn’t, but he seemed like an adult so I thought he might not assume the usual sleazy leer. He assumed a slight momentary leer.
He also spent an inordinate amount of time staring at me and saying how attractive I am. Now compliments are great and of course I’m grateful, it’s just that they make me a bit uncomfortable at the same time. I always try the be gracious and say thank you, but the honest truth is it kind of embarrasses me.
We’d been standing chatting at the bar for an hour or so chatting (him gazing at me – a bit like my insecure cat does when he tries to out-stare me, he usually wins), which is a tough gig when you’re wearing 3.5 inch stilettos. Seeing my pain he suggests we sit down and he guides me to a secluded corner where he then proceeds to kiss me.
If you’ve read many of my previous posts you’ll know I’m not a prude by any means, but this still felt a little fast for my liking. But it wasn’t like I didn’t want to kiss him, it’s just that given his circumstances I wanted to proceed with caution. The next thing I knew he had his hand on my thigh and was trying to guide my hand to his formidable cock.
Where the hell did that come from? And I’m not just talking about the dick proportioned like the arm of a well-built baby that does weight-lifting – on steroids… How had we gone from gentle flirting to ” here’s my giant cock, wanna feel?” in the space of an hour?
I wasn’t giving him any overt sexual signals – believe me I know when I am as they’re pretty darned intentional. In fact I was being what I thought was pretty coy… was it because I told him about my passion for pole (no pun intended – well ok maybe intended pun)? Did he actually know the rep of the meat joint he’d taken us to and assumed that “well she must be up for it if she knows we’er going here…”?
Now I have to admit to being a bit crap here – any strong, self-respecting woman would have twatted him in the face after such lewd behaviour. But I’m a total big girl’s blouse (aka lame-ass coward) when it comes to confrontations. So I just made my excuses and left in an extreme hurry.
Jeeze I just seem to have terrible luck or otherwise I’m a horrendous judge of character, I just didn’t see any of that coming. I assumed he was a gentleman, but what gentleman tries to get you to grab his knob in public on a Tuesday night after taking you out for a very civilized lunch date?
I’m beginning to wonder if I should steer clear of individuals who talk to strangers on public transport. Which reminds me, I have to tell you all about Crazy Italian – the Sicilian guy who asked me for directions….
I’ll explain all in the next post